What Does Gay Look Like?

I think it is about time some people understand exactly what gay looks like.

Gay People:

Gay Love:

Homophobia:

The only ugly I see is the hate and abuse inflicted upon those who only want to love. Love to all.

Burly Bear Chris

Autism Awareness Month Continued

There is so much information to share on Autism, that I could not fit it all in one post, so this is a continuation of yesterdays. If you missed it, please check that as well.
Treatment for Autism is not something I can go into great detail here. There is no known cure for Autism, but there are many many treatments that are designed into assisting those with the disorder. Each case is quite unique therefore not all treatments will work with all cases. Treatments are something that a Dr. will have to assess with each patient and range from dietary changes, medications, to behavioral training. Just a quick search on treatments returned over 52 million results, so there are quite a number of pages on the subject via the web.
What does Autism look like? Like everyone else.

As you can see, there are many faces to Autism.
What can you do to help? The best thing you can do to help is to get informed and then pass it on. Just last night I came across a woman who was all upset because she had heard from her sons school that he may be Autistic and she had no clue what that meant. Even if you do not feel comfortable educating others, simply by having the resources for someone can make a huge difference so I will add links to some great places to get even more information.
http://www.autismspeaks.org/
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/
http://www.autism-society.org/
http://www.autism.com/

I hope this helps someone out there. Love to all
Burly Bear Chris

Who Is Your Celebrity Crush?

I think we all have crushes on one or more celebrities. Someone who we would never have a chance at and even if we did, we would faint before anything happened anyway. Here are a few of mine. Don't judge me. lol. 

Ben Browder. I first came across Ben while watching Farscape with my ex. There is just something about the mixture of his sexy voice, his gorgeous eyes and rugged manliness. Then when he guest starred on Dr Who in "A Town Called Mercy", I drooled the entire episode!

George Eads. Do they come any sexier? I don't think so! There is something about his mannerisms and the way he carries himself you just know this hunk is a passionate and intense lover!

Mike O'Malley. ever since first catching sight of Mike on Yes Dear, I have had a bit of a crush on him. Here is a guy that I can picture doing anything a rugged, masculine man's man can do, then turn around and be the best cuddler in the world.

Well there is a few of my Celebrity crushes. Probably not what you expected, but you should know by now, you never know what to expect from me. haha. Who are some of your crushes? Leave comments below and see if anyone agrees with you. Love to all.

Burly Bear Chris

Its So Hard To Be This Beautiful

If I learned anything over the last year it is that it is so hard to be this beautiful. Now if you know me, you know I am taking a tongue in cheek approach to this post. There is a long list of adjectives I would use to describe myself, and beautiful is not on it. Having said that however, I fully understand that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I do not discredit that there are people out there that, fortunately for me, do find me attractive. To them I humbly say thank you. It should come as no surprise to you that there is a sub culture of people that find big people like myself as beautiful. This sub culture is often referred to as the Chub/Chaser community, but I do not particularly like that moniker. When I hear "Chub" I think of a tube of ground beef found at the supermarket and when I hear "Chaser" I think of a creeper stalking his prey. Hopefully as we evolve a new and better descriptive moniker will come, but for now, it is what it is. Now I am comfortable with who and what I am. I am a big hairy gay male. I am a Burly Bear. And I understand that there are guys out there that admire that about me. What I do not care for, however, are the guys that only see a big guys belly as a sex organ. No more then a piece of meat to get them off. That belly is attached to a human being. Someone with a brain. Someone with a heart. Someone with feelings. I understand the laws of attraction and I know that physical characteristics play a major role in them. But I am not a sex doll. I am not put here on this planet simply for your pleasure. I find it unfortunate that there are some guys that seek validation by allowing other guys to treat them as such. As well as woman who do the same. Its not the way to find someone who is going to treat you as an equal. They are not going to appreciate who you are, only what you are. I don't know how many times I have seen women post a picture of their cleavage all out there and whining why they can't find a guy who doesn't like them for more than sex. You reap what you sew. Let's face it. We are all sexual beings. It is a natural instinct we all share. And yes, there are times when we all get the urge to seek it out. But I am not fooling myself into thinking that the guy who asks if I will cam 2 cam with him in the first 5 minutes of meeting will ever want me for anything more. Its the one that spends the time getting to know me. The one that waits til the second or third time we chat to ask if we could Skype. And even when we do, its so we can see each others face, look into each others eyes and really get to know each other. That is when I know I have met someone who sees me as more then a belly. So for those reading this wondering why they have not found someone who wants them for the person they are, not the thing they are, ask yourself, "What am I putting out there?" Love To All!!

Burly Bear Chris.